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Arben "Ben" Delija

Therapist · United Kingdom

Integrative counsellor focusing on practical change

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Arben "Ben" Delija
Credentials
BACP, NCPS
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom · 406737; NCPS, United Kingdom · NCS22-02259
Experience
5 years
Languages
English, Albanian
Location
United Kingdom
  • Person-centred
  • CBT tools
  • Addiction experience

About Arben

Arben "Ben" Delija works with people using an integrative, person-centred approach. He combines listening with practical steps to help people manage stress, anxiety, addiction and relationship concerns. Ben presents himself plainly and aims to make therapy accessible and straightforward for clients.

He draws on client-centred methods alongside cognitive behavioural techniques to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and try different ways of coping. Dialectical behaviour therapy tools are used to teach emotion regulation and distress tolerance skills when feelings run high. Motivational Interviewing is used to support change when people feel stuck or unsure about next steps.

Ben has five years in a counselling role and earlier spent 18 years supporting people with drug and alcohol issues, focusing on harm reduction and both group and one-to-one work. That background informs how he supports people through addiction, relapse prevention and practical coping strategies.

People bring many concerns, including depression, grief, parenting strain, sleep and eating difficulties, intimacy-related issues and codependency. He also supports those working through trauma, family problems, immigration stress and career change. Sessions aim to be collaborative, with the person’s goals guiding the work.

Ben holds BACP and NCPS credentials. Sessions are offered in English and Albanian and he sees international clients. Prospective clients are invited to start with a short matching questionnaire to find a suitable time and fit.

How key approaches translate to online therapy

The clinician uses client-centred work to focus sessions on what matters most to the person, offering space to be heard and helping them set achievable goals. Cognitive behavioural therapy involves identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing small behavioural experiments, which can be worked on in session and practiced between meetings.

Dialectical behaviour therapy supplies straightforward skills for managing strong emotions and reducing impulsive reactions, useful when anxiety, anger or cravings feel overwhelming. Together these approaches allow practical tasks alongside reflective conversation, and the therapist will collaborate with the client to choose the best mix for their needs and goals.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapy journey. The therapist will discuss options and adapt techniques over time, based on what helps most and what a person prefers. This collaborative way of working helps tailor sessions to personal aims and life demands.

Confirm the specific online session formats before booking, as the biography does not list them. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions around daily commitments, provide a quiet space for a focused check-in, or allow a shorter phone-style meeting when video is not convenient. Registered and accredited professionals can use different approaches to make remote therapy practical and effective.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesCancerCodependencyCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Motivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

Listed on profile

Languages

English, Albanian

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, addiction and relationship or family concerns, among other issues such as grief, trauma and codependency.

What is his therapy style like?

His style is integrative and person-centred, combining listening with practical activities from CBT and DBT to build coping skills and emotional regulation.

What experience does he bring to sessions?

He has five years working as a counsellor plus 18 years supporting people with drug and alcohol issues, including harm reduction, group work and one-to-one sessions.

What credentials and region are associated with this counsellor?

He holds BACP and NCPS credentials and practises from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Albanian, and he also accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not specify the exact formats offered.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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